A marriage and another activist seeks asylum .............

According to the 

Jamaican gay activist, Maurice Tomlinson, married a Torontonian

Catherine Porter

The day after Jack Layton’s funeral, eulogist Stephen Lewis and pastor Brent Hawkes congregated again for a different holy ritual: Maurice Tomlinson’s wedding.
Tomlinson is a leading gay activist in Jamaica — the only country in the Western hemisphere where gay sex is still illegal.

In Toronto, he married Tom Decker, a police officer-cum-pastor in the Metropolitan Community Church of Toronto.
The UN’s former special envoy for HIV/AIDS in Africa was the best man. Hawkes married them. Tomlinson wept with joy throughout the ceremony, but he didn’t invite any of his family out of fear.

Talk about a double life.

“In Canada, I have a husband,” he told me from their little red-brick row home in Toronto’s east end. “In Jamaica, I have a good friend.”
In the past year, Tomlinson has received three death threats for speaking out against the country’s virulent homophobia.

He’s stopped going to parties and bars and public beaches, he says.
He’s right to be scared. Vigilante justice against gay men is common in Jamaica, a country where 82 per cent of people self-identified as homophobic in one recent survey. Last year, two men were chopped to death with machetes because they were gay.

Former Prime Minister Bruce Golding was openly homophobic: he said he’d never appoint a gay person to his cabinet. According to the law, consensual sex between two men in Jamaica will get you 10 years of imprisonment and hard labour. Any “act of gross indecency” — like kissing — will get you two years.

The law is rarely enforced. More often, police use it for extortion, Tomlinson says. But its very existence fuels the mobs, machetes in hand, since gays are legally criminals. Even the police officer who recorded his first death-threat report “went on a tirade that he hates gays, who deserve to die,” says Tomlinson.

For two years, Tomlinson has collected victim reports as a legal adviser for Lewis’ international advocacy organization, AIDS-Free World. Now, he’s taking them to the Inter-American Commission on Human Rights, since the Jamaican charter protects the laws against “sexual offences” from constitutional review.

“There’s an African proverb: you are mopping the floor while the tap is still running,” says Tomlinson, 40. “If you don’t change the law, you’ll never change the attitude.”
The commission is likely to hear his petition this spring. Even though it has no authority over Jamaica’s parliament, it will be a big moment for the island’s underground gay community.

Dirty laundry for all to see.

There is other good news. On Jan. 29, Tomlinson will be in England to receive the inaugural David Kato award for gay human rights activism. Kato, a Ugandan gay activist, was murdered last year. The award comes with a $10,000 grant that Tomlinson plans to use to give Caribbean police officers anti-homophobic training.

And, last week, Jamaicans elected a new prime minister, Portia Simpson Miller, who pledged to put the country’s anti-sodomy law to a vote in parliament.
“Justice will out!” Lewis wrote me in an email. “I genuinely believe this would not have happened had Maurice not spent the last two years on a personal crusade to convert Jamaica to tolerance.”

Tomlinson is less optimistic. He is sure parliament will be swayed again by the powerful evangelical churches and that machete mobs will continue unabated.
Change both seeps and charges. Just think: 11 years ago this month, Hawkes performed the country’s first gay wedding, wearing a bulletproof vest under his clerical vestments.
Looking at the freckles that splash down Tomlinson’s left cheek like sugar grains, I wonder how anyone could hate a man this breathlessly beautiful. He’s worried he’ll be dead by the time gays are no longer criminals in Jamaica. He’s applying for Canadian citizenship, he tells me. We’d be lucky to have him.

But I hope he stays in Jamaica.
That country needs him more.

Catherine Porter’s column usually appears on Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday. She can be reached at cporter@thestar.ca.

ENDS

two cents

One would have thought that in the middle of the struggle and the gift for some by the new administration to review the buggery law and seeing how Mr Tomlinson has thrown himself in the public eye as the face for LGBT advocacy at his own re-cognisance even appearing on local television only last evening on CVM TV (I missed it) this would be the last thing we would see, what a perfect gift for the homophobes to latch on to now? oh see they (gays) don't need to be here, they can go abroad and marry, let them get asylum and leave here as we don't want no battyman here in Jamaica are some of the thoughts I presume they must be saying after seeing this, thoughts and sentiments by the way that have been said before. Perfect too this showcase of the wide class divisions in the community as the more affluent can always escape direct homophobia but FIRE!!! or hell for a gay man who is found or even suspected to be such in the lower socio economic strata of Jamaican society even though there is a perception that homophobia is lesser today that years gone by and as is typical with many such as Maurice they seek asylum afterwards running away leaving the rest of us to face the music, another activist flies the coup, why am I not surprised? yet another activist runs off. 

Local papers have also caught on to the news as well. 

Some of us realised very early in the day that the buggery review tag was a nice election trick and a great way for any politician to escape scrutiny when tackled about buggery as knowing that it may not get a positive vote in the proposed conscience vote by Mrs Simpson Miller. If and when it happens as well, as many suspect in won't for a while to come however the results may come with negative majority, then any PM or representative can say well the vote was run and the people through their representatives have spoken and that is the end of the matter.

To finally having to see the true feelings from Tomlinson on the possible outcome of a conscience vote on the buggery law review from a FOREIGN publication also again raises the importance or lack thereof of the regard to the local LGBT community on the ground and relevant forumatic discourse needed. 

Knowing the invented gay marriage ploy used to castigate the so called homosexual lifestyle especially by the politicians including the newly elected Prime Minister Mrs Simpson Miller in 2009 when during the Charter of Rights Debate October 20th she said ""Mr Speaker when we accepted the final report from the joint select committee that were looking at the bill we were completely satisfied with their recommendation of a provision to restrict marriage and like relationships to one man and one woman within Jamaica and that the provision should be specifically spelt out so that there could be no ambiguity .......... yes one man one woman (laughter in the house) and if you are Jamaican and go overseas the same applies ..........."

We also saw restorative therapy advocate and raging anti gay pastor Rev Al Miller who also talks about marriage and family life being threatened by the homosexual lifestyle what a way to rile up the opposition now when our hands are still in the lions mouth, it's like the mistakes keep a coming only days before we saw the goodly JFLAG laying down an expectation as it is called by them for the buggery matter to be discussed within 100 days of the new administration of the PNP. Yes, I see the timing of this public marriage as a mistake at this important juncture which may greatly affect our position in the struggle on the ground. Strategy here anyone?

As representatives what and how we do or conduct ourselves is subjected to public scrutiny and it also leaves a strange feeling for some persons on the ground as in a conversation I was privy to on this news where persons questioned the legitimacy of the persons who put themselves forward as advocates on behalf of the rest of us supposedly. More and more cynicism is raising its head and motive is being looked for when all there is or seems to be is self aggrandisement and attention seeking in the eyes of some.

We may never know the truth as to the representation as is being put forward supposedly on our behalf sans any real honest consultations with the LGBT body politic. Again as I said in a previous post ” ….. yuh hand inna lion mouth u tek time draw it out,” (your hand is in a lion’s mouth you take your time and pull it out)

Peace and tolerance

H


UPDATE 30.01.12

Remarks by Maurice Tomlinson, AIDS-Free World’s Legal Advisor on Marginalized Groups, upon receiving the inaugural

‘David Kato Vision and Voice Award’

London, UK, January 29, 2012, 6:00 PM


more on audio (Feb 1, 2012)

 Ethical Professionlism & LGBT Advocates 01.02.12 by glbtqja4