Jacker on Jack’d got Jacked by Jack

I am still in stitches as an old friend of mine shared his ordeal that occurred earlier this year with me at a lyme recently. He suggested I share it with you guys. With all the new spaces for hook-ups the same old, same old crap still follows; from Yahoo, MSN cam to cam or College men days to now some fools just think that can trick folks and get away with it. Imagine this, meeting a hook up via Jack’d, a smart phone all male hook up application which is the where technology step up from Adamforadam for my older readers who don’t know. Fortunately he is not one to get upset so easily so the joke worked fine, he met a dude on the platform some time ago and they have been communicating for a while but never met as one thins smart dudes know is not to capitulate to pressure to meet just after the first few exchanges. But after some chatting and messaging including pictures exchanged a meeting was in order. The man who hailed from Clarendon made his way to Portmore where my brethren lives and what was supposed to be a hot night ended up becoming a slowly developing nightmare with the dude.

They man arrived, well dressed, smelling good and so on but what happened next was just a reminder of how not to be fooled into believing the man who is in your house is as clean or trustworthy as thought or presented and that one should always vet these fools off site so to speak before the actual meeting, if not at a hotel if one can afford it or use the old switch clothing colour tactic and then watch his reaction to determine where or what he is about. The man commenced to make demands firstly in subtle ways but as the conversation went on it was clear that he was more about trade than about a good quickie. As my brethren turned around to get some items from the refrigerator he was just in time to see the dude with his BLU smart phone and looking around to see if he was being seen. He replaced the phone as soon as he heard the approach of my brethren not realising he was spotted. His motive was clear to the host but he pretended that he did not become aware of the prank and continued the conversation.

It was clear in the host’s mind that nothing fun was going to be had that evening but the trick was how to end it nicely and put him out. That is where the rubber meets the road hence violent outcomes, as both men continued the facade the host according to him had to break the ice, as he tried to do so the expected reaction came. The host (my brethren) decided to inform him that he saw him (the guest) with the phone and was not happy with the matter, to which the man reacted, that he was no thief and so forth. That was where the tensions really began and next came his demand to be paid for his transportation (this is almost 11pm now) and that he was offended that he was labelled a thief despite he was there for some sex. My brethren who is an ex-soldier made it clear to him he had to leave to which the man made threatening gestures and remarks. The thing developed into a physical altercation and the man was eventually forced out of the house but not before damaging a television screen which got cracked as a bottle was thrown at the host by the man in the struggle.

In exchange for the damage the host reacted in the tussle and relieved the man of his Samsung phone S6 in lieu of the TV damage and then proceeded to grace him with a series of select colourful Jamaican words, the man threatened he would find him or get friends to take revenge but the ex soldier was not perturbed by the threats, fortunately the immediate neighbours were not home so all went unheard for the most part as the house is situated in a corner lot he said.

That one was a close shave but it just goes to show how these things can descend into something else rather quickly with unintended outcomes. These trade types, thots, heaviots whatever slang or term you want to use think they are more man than anybody else and that they are owed something; or think men who have sex with men have more money or material wealth than everybody else so the sex comes with a price. They seem interested in keeping up appearances under the guise that gay sex is still taboo so outings and embarrassments and related fears are played upon to influence the power differentials at play.

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Peace & tolerance 

H