THE THEORY OF Pansexuality by the late 'Peter Boom' revisted

Farewell to Peter Boom, Father of the Theory of Pansexuality

THE THEORY OF Pansexuality
Presented at the 6th Congress of Sexology
- Limassol, June 2002 -

The human being is a "pansexual" (from pan (greek) = all), a sexual being complete. We all possess various sexual possibilities, from sexology too strictly classified as hetero-, homo-, bi-sexuality, masturbation, fetishism, sado-masochism, and many other forms of sexual use. Forms that can explode at any moment in every human being. The polymorphous-perverse child is born, that plays with his mother, touching himself and everything that happens, masturbating, then becomes fetishist enjoying their feces, they play games with doctors and nurses as they explore, all this is perfectly natural .

At the time of puberty (sexual growth) occurs ambivalence is natural and undeniable. Still later sexuality usually becomes more defined, but the range of options remain open. These options, depending on the type of society or tribe in which they live, are partially repressed or made taboo.
A tribe in Borneo in which women with children living together in a big hut, while men live in another building.

In Kenya still live a nomadic tribe of people proud long as exists in the custom of blood oath, among boys of twelve. Couples wander all his life faithfully together in this vast country, going back two or three times a year within their tribe in the highlands, to spend time with women and thus to ensure procreation. There are many other examples, like the tribes of Africa and Siwan in Kerak in New Guinea, where nearly all the males have sex with men and heterosexuals, but this is a matter of anthropologists.
It is important not to repress any of our pansexuality and live it well and with common sense. The repression and leads to frustration which can in turn create violent and antisocial behavior. Common sense is in the expression: Do not do unto others what you do not want done to yourself.

Definition of Pansexuality ':
For Pansexuality 'shall mean all the sexuality of the person
(Gay, lesbian, bisexual, transsexual, transgender, heterosexual) they are all equally existing or some of them permanently or occasionally prevailing in person.

The word is explained by Professor Pansexualism Haeberle in his Critical Dictionary as follows:

"Pansexualism (sometimes" pansexuality "from the greek" pan "means all) everything about sexual love. An attitude or a philosophy which is based on the belief that the potential human sex can and should be directed to each and every thing. Once, the term "pansexualism" was also used for the theory that the whole of human behavior is still affected sexually. This theory is not considered more valida.Oggi the words "pansexualism" and "pansexuality" are often used by some advocates of sexual liberation who want to convey the idea that the current sexual and gender roles of women and men are too narrow and that, therefore, a general sexuality should include the full spectrum of sexual orientations and deliberately ignore all the other conventional distinctions. "

I had an interesting correspondence with Professor Haeberle of emails and I take this opportunity to thank him publicly for his contribution to my studies of Sexology.

The Theory of Pansexuality is best understood not in absolute terms but relative, just as biological sex and gender roles.
Observation of human sexual behavior we have learned that being a woman and being a man, femininity and masculinity, homosexuality el'eterosessualità are a matter of degree.
Today we speak too easily of hetero-, homo-and bi-sexuality without understanding the characteristics of the different categories overlap. A very limited mental vision and impairs the natural vision of life, as understood by science of the past and some ancient religions ... unfortunately today. Today the word "nature" is regularly used to fight for sexual rights and as Professor Erwin Haeberle says: "A critical study of the traditional Law of Nature can still teach us much about the true sexual morality of man."

In many societies, women can not live their "Pansexuality. The relationship between men and women is based on the concept that a woman is at least one rung lower on the rating scale, useful only to breed and look after the children, and certainly this is not a good basis for love or sex .
"Fescinninni versus" was an ancient orgiastic ritual where we seduce each other in a mixed relationship pansexual. In the Etruscan civilization women could freely choose their partners and reject them when they wished.

"I love you as you are" is a text that I wrote in 1977 for the film "Tomboy", the actors were well-known American and European sexologists. The song (which is also the lead singer) expressed the psychic and physical pain of an individual undergoing a surgery for gender reassignment. If we have time, we hear the song.
However I consider this kind of operation a terrible violence. Who wants to change sex, is going to do it because he or she wants to be better accepted by society. Many psychologists argue that they want to be accepted first by themselves.
In some cultures, an ancient and honored hermaphrodite was considered a rare flower, an orchid. In most of our society such a person is marginalized and often exploited and abused during the night by those who despise the light of day.
No, it is society that must change, not the rare flower that should never be subjected to sadistic and speculative actions to make it a very common and artificial flower.

Another issue that you can not speak freely in many countries is the sex life of people with disabilities. For these people it is really difficult to have sex, sometimes even prohibited, by depriving them of what little joy during which they could still enjoy life. Love and affection should be provided even for them, and as I often say: "There's always someone for everyone". At least I hope so.
I confess I was so surprised when I discovered that many boys and young men fall in love with older men. I thought for a senior like me sex was over, but when I discovered the existence of Italian sites for the "silver fox" on the Internet,
I have great male friends and I found my ideal partner.
I must say that young people are known so far gerontophiles very sensitive and would initiate an interesting case study about.

For them, it becomes harder to be accepted by society and families. And if they are doubly marginalized homosexuals and harshly criticized when revealing the identity of their partner, which is often even more of their own elderly parents.
Another complaint is taboo to speak openly and even scientifically pedophilia, which seems to have raised a wave of public outrage around the world.
Anthropological studies provide us with different answers to that question, and of course you can not treat the child as an asexual being.

It 's true that children must be protected from all violence, especially by hypocrites teachers, priests and their families.
The political class is still considered risky to finance scientific research on the subject, to understand what are the limits for adults.
In conclusion I would like to clarify that, in my opinion, all orientations of emotional ties are self-induced, psychologically constructed and not biologically predetermined. "I like that person, he or she has something that attracts me."
The company has tried to influence all forms of sexuality other than heterosexuality, called "normal".

Perhaps it was felt as a need to procreate more in order to increase the population when the hunger, epidemics and wars decimating entire peoples and when medicine had not reached the high current levels.
Maybe this is one of the reasons why today, under the constant threat of overpopulation, Pansexuality is spreading more freely.
All of our sexual orientation, our Pansexuality, also include the negative inclinations, those that are harmful to others and to ourselves. Sexuality, like the telephone and the internet can be used both positively and negatively.
What is the negative use of sex and what are the positive ways of sexual behavior?
It is not easy to define.

For example, sadomasochism is acceptable to a certain point, but necrophilia is considered a serious disorder and pedophilia in our society is not acceptable.
Of course I must be very humble, because I certainly can not compare me to the outstanding scientists at the International Congress.

I hope I can learn a lot from you all.
I understand that my theory Pansexuality could raise a lot of problems in the area of ​​psychological research as well as in the social, political and religious. A Weltanschauung (view of life or the world) will not be easily accepted by everyone, but it can succeed and become a common way to view sexuality.

Peter Boom

Born in Holland in 1936, Boom had moved to Italy in two decades. Multifaceted man of culture and entertainment, was an actor, singer, voice actor, writer and lyricist. He died on May 26th 2011.